Child Sexual Abuse and Grooming

Grooming is a process by which an offender gradually builds a relationship with a child with the intent to exploit and abuse them. It’s a deceptive and manipulative practice that can take place both in person and online, and it’s essential for us all to recognize the signs.

At Parakeleo Counseling, we are committed to not only supporting the mental health of children but also empowering our community with knowledge to protect our young ones.

Here’s what you need to know about recognizing the signs and preventing grooming for sexual abuse:

Grooming often involves a series of steps that can occur over an extended period of time, such as an adult showing excessive interest in a child; special attention, gifts, or treats to a child without a clear reason; isolating the child from others; filling a need by providing a sympathetic ear, understanding, or friendship; inappropriate physical contact or conversations; and testing boundaries, such as discussing sexual topics or sharing pornography.

Preventing grooming starts with open communication and education. Here are some steps you can take to protect your child:

1. Educate your child about their body, boundaries, and personal safety.
2. Encourage open communication; let your child know they can talk to you about anything.
3. Be mindful of adults in your child’s life who take an unusual interest in them.
4. Monitor online activity and familiarize yourself with your child’s online friends and platforms they use.
5. Trust your instincts—if something feels off, it’s okay to ask questions and set boundaries.

It’s crucial to create an environment where children feel safe and heard. If you suspect grooming or abuse, take immediate action by contacting local authorities or child protective services. For support or guidance, please reach out to our office.

If you have any concerns or would like to learn more about this topic, please don’t hesitate to contact us or visit our website for resources.

Happy Parenting,

Alicia M Crum, LPC-S, NCC